PURPOSEFUL RELATIONSHIP

CHOOSING RIGHT PARTNER TO ACCOMPLISH YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE

" And the Lord God said, It is not good that a man should be alone, I will make him an help meet for him"- Genesis 2 vs 18

       Relationship in the stages of Man's life is where a man needs to take a critical look at because it is the blessed stage in life and one in which we are expected to get involved in and with the right partner. But we have made a mistake in choosing who will be our partner in relationship, some relationship have even led to an Ungodly relationship and in opposite to the purpose of God for our lives.

       Let us look at the story of Samson in the bible, when he  decided to marry a wife from Philistines "And he came up and told his Father and his Mother, and said I have seen a Woman in Timnah of the daughters of the Philippines; now therefore get her for me to wife". "The his father and his mother said unto him, is there never a woman among the daughters of thy breathen,or among all my people, that then goes to take a wife of the 'Uncircumcised Philistines?- Judges 14 vs 2-3. As we know, Samson was a Nazarite unto God from the womb, that is a covenant child right from his Mother's womb like you were born too. And which God called him for a public pose of delivering Israelites from Philistines. But Samson misused this power because he chose from the uncircumcised Philistines.

WHAT DOES THAT UNCIRCUMCISED MEANS?

During Abraham generation, he regard circumcision as a covenant between human being and God. God told Abraham in Genesis 17:13 ESV:both he who is born in your house and he who is bought with your money, shall surely be circumcised. So shall my covenant be in your flesh an everlasting covenant. And if  you read it down, God told him about those that are not circumcised vs14- ESV:Any uncircumcised male who is not circumcised in the flesh of his foreskin shall be cut off from his people; he has broken my covenant; Samon knew this lady was from the land which they are not in God's covenant but Samson has been emotionally affected which led him to forget the covenant, God has for his name and his land, and he also forgot that there is a purpose which is yet to be  accomplished. I am not talking about physical circumcision, but I am talking about spiritual circumcision. Bible says in proverb that "Iron sharpeth Iron". Choosing a partner that is not circumcised by the holy spirit, that is not in line with God but a Man/Woman that would able to stand in place of fasting and prayer with you, a circumcised partner that will be in same perspective in your journey in life, for the purpose which God created you to be fulfilled.

       Adam said "this is bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh, she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of a man- Genesis 2 vs 23. The lady that would be called your woman must be out of your bone and the flesh, but if one bone is broken, another bone cannot be formed from it, they will rather share the broken bone. One will repel, other one will attract. Though physics prove it right but in the kingdom of God, which is the one ruling us, there is nothing like that, the like charges will follow its like charges and the repelled one will follow it charges, A drunker man cannot marry a Woman that God is preparing for the evangelism of the end time.A negative charges must follow its follow negative charge while the positive attract each other. If you know the scope of God for your journey in life, you know the purpose of God for your life, I believe you will choose the one that will make both of you to succeed in Life.

        If we look at Samson's life, he chose what pleased him,which was DELILAH, but he did not choose what pleased God and it was not in accordance to his purpose."Choosing a wrong partner on the journey of someone's life, causes some traffics on the way"

      WHAT HAPPENED TO SAMSON TO CHOOSE WRONG?

 (1). He did not obey the instructions of God  (2). He did not ask God for who will be his life partner.  (3). He forgot his purpose.

      These three things that happed to Samson can be referred to you as a question

Firstly, Did you obey God's instruction on the relationship you are: maybe  you have heard it from the servant of God or your Parent like Samson's parent warned him,  that the  brother or sister is not the right person for you but because of the facial beauty, and chose to  claim him/her your right choice.

Secondly; have you ever prayed to God yourself about the partner you are choosing? Or have you ever heard the voice of God concerning the brother/sister that if he/she  will be the one to help you in accomplishing your journey in Life?

Lastly; Do you know your purpose here on Earth? If not, try and know it now, Samson forgot his purpose and he allowed Delilah to enticed him and the Lord departed from him, the enemies  took him away. It was only the grace of God that uphold him to the end.

      Make the right decision and choice now, there is a great purpose before you for which God has called you for Like a quote says "Be selective of precious goods not of the common goods". Future ahead of you is bright and the Kingdom of devil shall not be prevailed over your destiny In Jesus Name. Amen. Have a nice relationship